God's people know that grace is glorified not by the commission of sin, but by the forgiveness of it, not by encouraging sin, but by putting an end to it. Grace never causes men and women to love sin and pursue it. Grace causes us to hate our sin and seek to be done with it. Paul says, "How shall we, that are dead to sin, live any longer therein?" Such a thought is as repulsive as it is unreasonable!
Believers are dead to sin. We are not dead to the influence of sin (Rom. 7:15, 19), the results of sin (Rom. 7:21), or the effects of sin (Rom. 7:24; Psa. 51:3-4). Our Lord taught us to pray continually, "Forgive us our sins." Because we constantly commit sin, we must constantly confess our sin and look to Christ for forgiveness (I John 1:9). But we are dead to the guilt and penalty of sin. Sin shall never be charged to us (Rom. 4:8) and never condemn us (Rom. 8:1). God will never treat us any the less graciously because of our sin! And we are dead to the dominion of sin (Rom. 6:14).
Believers do not live in sin. To live in sin is to give yourself up to it, be bent upon it, be controlled by it, find pleasure in it, and make room and allowance for it. Though sin lives in us, believers do not live in sin. We live in Christ! We are bent upon him, controlled by him, find pleasure in him, and make room for him. It is our joy to follow Christ and be like him.
Paul has settled this controversy forever, insofar as the doctrine of the gospel is concerned. Now let it be settled in your heart and mine. Grace does not promote licentiousness. Grace promotes righteousness!